Sainsbury’s Staff Tell Gay Couple To Stop Holding Hands – Offers £10 Gift Card As Apology



Thomas Rees and his boyfriend Josh were asked to leave the Hackney branch of Sainsbury’s and told that a complaint had been made about them holding hands, claiming that they were ‘touching inappropriately’.

Mr. Rees has spoken out about the incident to ITV News, saying ‘My boyfriend and I went to our local Sainsbury’s holding hands as we normally do, just general public display of affection and we didn’t notice anything untoward or weird.  In East London it’s not uncommon but we noticed the security guard staring.’

After the couple had paid for their shopping and were about to leave the store they were pulled to one side by the store security guard, who proceeded to leave the store with them before explaining to them that another customer had complained about them holding hands in the store and that they had to stop doing so.

Speaking about the incident Mr Rees has said, ‘My blood boiled.  I was shaking and dumbfounded and unable to respond.  He kept repeating that the customer felt our behaviour was inappropriate.’

After the incident Mr Rees took to Twitter to vent about his experience, where a representative for the company attempted to resolve the incident, by offering him a £10 gift card as a ‘goodwill gesture’.

The offer of the gift card has been turned down, with Mr Rees saying in response that he simply wants the retailer to train their staff around LGBT+ issues.

‘I just don’t understand why he needed to take us outside and why he needed to tell us to stop holding hands.  There was no sense of humility’  He said whilst speaking to Buzzfeed.  ‘I refuse to believe that this would have happened to a heterosexual couple – we just stared in disbelief.  The issue here is it felt like 1960’s Britain.’

A spokesperson from Sainsbury’s said, ‘We sincerely apologise to Thomas and Josh.  We are an inclusive retailer and employer and do not tolerate discrimination in our stores.  We will take appropriate action once we have concluded our investigation with our security contractor.’


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Amy is a journalist and editor contributing the websites Planet Transgender, Gay News Network, The Bottle Episode, The Retro Box and Claire Channel. Amy is also a published comic book writer and letterer. In addition to her writing Amy has also worked with the Centre For Hate Crime Studies in Leicester and has worked in the capacity of an advisor to the United Nations Entity For Gender Equality and The Empowerment of Women.


  1. Such wank isn’t it. Seriously, like WTF is wrong with a public display of affection. Gender sexuality etc, it just shouldn’t matter. Personal qualities like humility and affection towards other human beings should be embraced, not something to be feared just because it’s two men doing it. Small minded homophobic reptilian overlords from a prehistoric era, that’s the problem. Time to edumacate 😉


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